Eating Healthy Over The Weekends!

Hello Family! I hope you had a good week. The weekend is upon us! Have you noticed how, even if you do all the right things in terms of your diet during the week, over the weekend, you break all your won rules?! Well, I’m here to provide some tips to help you with that!

1) Swallow Strategy! Replace heavy swallows with lighter ones:
Instead of pounded yam, all the time (I know! How dare I mention pounded yam! What sacrilege! 😀 ), try oat/plantain/wheat swallow. These alternatives have lower calorie density, higher fibre and go through a gentler digestion.

Amala is also a good low calorie option. Let’s see how it compares to other Swallows (With Pounded Yam being the heaviest and Oat swallow being the lightest)

a) Oat swallow
b) Wheat swallow
c) Plantain swallow
d) Amala
e) Eba (white garri)
f) Semo
g) Pounded yam

You know how Igbos are called ‘a je okuta ma mu omi’ 😀 (Full disclosure, I’m Igbo too so, no disrespect meant). It’s a term used to describe the fact that we make our eba very thick and hard. The Yoruba version of eba, which is very soft, took some getting used to, for me 😀 But, it turns out there’s wisdom in the Igbo style. Eba made with less water is firmer, which leads to slower digestion and stays longer in the stomach making you feel full for longer. This also means less spike in glucose

Remember, that your swallow should also be just one quarter of your plate.

If your swallow covers the whole plate, it is no longer swallow – it is construction work. 😀

As a practical tip this weekend, try and eat half your normal swallow size and increase vegetable portion.

2) A lot of us grew up learning to cook our regular tomato stew with fried meat. But, instead of deep-fried chicken, turkey, beef, or goat soaked in oil, try something different this weekend.
Swap with:
• Air-fried meat
• Oven-grilled chicken with dry rub
• Grilled turkey with pepper sauce
• Pan-seared goat meat using 1 – 2 tablespoons of oil instead of deep frying

You still get the same flavour (in fact, grilled meat often tastes better)
There’s less oil absorbed which leads to a massive calorie reduction in your meal
You still keep the crispy exterior of the protein and a juicy interior

One additional flavour secret:
Marinate your protein longer instead of adding more oil.
Garlic, ginger, pepper mix, thyme, curry, and seasoning cubes + time lead to deeper flavours.

3) If you love rice like I do, please mind your portion this weekend. Your rice should only be a quarter of your plate (a normal, regular dinner plate…no super-sized, who send you come plate, please!)
So, reduce your rice portion and replace the space with vegetables you actually like.
Examples:
• Add steamed mixed vegetables or green (efo) to Jollof or fried rice
• Add coleslaw (very, very light mayo or yogurt mix)
• Add cucumber, grilled plantain, or steamed cabbage on the side

This still keeps your plate visually full. In addition, you are:
• Eating less starch but you have the same eating satisfaction
• Also preventing the ‘food coma’ feeling

So, at the party this weekend, don’t remove rice. Reduce it slightly and replace the space with colour.

4) Tweaks to your stew & soup that change NOTHING about the taste:
• Fry with less oil and top up with meat stock (instead of topping up with more oil). If you can see the oil, it’s too much!
• Add blended roasted bell peppers for deeper flavour without oil in soups (Egusi, Ogbono, Efo, Afang):
• Toast Egusi lightly instead of frying
• For Efo riro: steam the leaves first – this significantly reduces oil needed by 40%

So, which one will you try this weekend?

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What Does The Black Line On My Tummy Mean?

Q: Hey Doc! What is the meaning of that black line under the belly button and on top just a little?

A: Hello dear, thanks for writing in.

What you’re noticing is most likely related to something called the linea alba and linea nigra.

Let me explain.

First, linea alba. This is a natural line that runs vertically down the middle of the abdomen, from the chest area down to the lower tummy. Everyone has it, but in many people it’s very faint and barely visible.

Then, linea nigra. When the linea alba becomes darker or more visible, it is called linea nigra. This darkening happens due to hormonal changes, especially increased estrogen and progesterone.

Therefore, it is very common in:

Pregnancy

After pregnancy

During hormonal changes

With some contraceptives

In some women around their menstrual cycle

Important things to know

Linea nigra is not dangerous

It is not a disease

It does not mean something is wrong with your womb

It does not automatically mean pregnancy

It is simply increased skin pigmentation triggered by hormones.

Will it go away? In many women, the line fades gradually over time once hormones stabilize. In some, it may remain faintly visible and that is completely normal.

Please see your doctor is if the dark line is accompanied by:

Missed periods

Breast tenderness

Nausea

Lower abdominal pain

Then a pregnancy test or medical review is advised not because the line itself is dangerous, but to understand what’s driving the hormonal change.

I hope this helps!

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Diarrhea, Period with Cramps and Clots – Can This Be Pregnancy?

Q: Hello doc I have diarrhea together with period cramps but I’m not on my period so today I’m bleeding dark red blood with small clots can it be that I’m pregnant

A: Hello dear, thank you for reaching out
Let’s take a few steps back to answer this question…

During every menstrual cycle, the womb prepares itself to receive a pregnancy. When pregnancy does not happen, the thickened lining of the womb is shed as menstrual blood.
Normally, menstrual blood does not clot because the body releases natural substances that keep it flowing smoothly. However, when the bleeding is heavier or flowing faster than usual, small clots can appear especially on the heaviest day. This can happen even in healthy women and does not automatically mean something is wrong.
Dark red blood with small clots can therefore still be menstrual blood, even if the timing feels unusual.

About the diarrhea and cramps
Diarrhea, abdominal cramps, nausea and even vomiting can occur around the time of menstruation. This is due to a hormone called prostaglandin, which causes the womb to contract but can also affect the stomach and intestines.
So yes – cramps and diarrhea can happen even before or at the very start of bleeding.

Could this be pregnancy?
Early pregnancy bleeding can happen, but it is usually:
• Light spotting, not heavy flow
• Often without clots
Bleeding with clots is more commonly menstrual, though an early miscarriage can also present this way.
Because of that, pregnancy cannot be ruled out completely without a test.
I hope this helps 🙂

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Can I Get Pregnant During My Period?

Q: Hy Doc I want to know .,..is it possible to get pregnant when you have unprotected sex during your periods

A: Well, having sexual intercourse during a lady’s menstrual period does not make a man impotent, neither does it kill vital organs in his body…contrary to all the stories you have probably heard 😊

However, it is obviously messy and it is easy to contract Sexually Transmitted Infections at this time.

Can one get pregnant at this time? Unlikely but not impossible. It depends on the length of a woman’s cycle. If she has a short cycle, she could be seeing her period a few days away from her ovulation. Thus, if she has sexual intercourse, perhaps towards the end of her period, the sperm, which can stay ‘alive’ for days after sexual intercourse, are still available to fertilize the eggs released during ovulation. If in your case, you’re sure that you ovulate during your period, then I end by saying, ‘having sexual intercourse during menstruation is NOT a means of contraception’ 😊

Have a good night everyone 😊

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No Longer Seeing My Periods Monthly After Taking Contraceptive Injections

Q: I have a problem..I was using 2 months injection last year and now I don’t see my periods every month but I am no longer using it.

A: Thank you for writing in. Many women experience the same thing after using injections.

Family planning injections work by changing how your body functions in two main ways:
they stop your ovaries from releasing eggs every month, and they thicken the mucus in your cervix so sperm can’t get through. Because of this, your natural cycle can change while you’re on the injection.

For many women, this happens in stages:
At first, periods may become heavier or more frequent. Later, they often become lighter.
With time, some women start to see irregular periods or even no periods at all.

So not seeing your period every month after stopping the injection could be normal.

When the injections are stopped, the body usually needs time to ‘wake up’ and start ovulating again. For some women, this happens in 2–3 months. For others, it can take longer, sometimes up to a year, and in rare cases, even longer. This does not mean anything is permanently wrong and it has nothing to do with the duration for which the injection was taken. It just means your hormones are taking time to rebalance.

That said, irregular periods can sometimes also be caused by things like infections or other hormonal issues  not just the injection. That’s why it’s important to see a doctor or gynaecologist to check and be sure everything is okay.

If you stopped the injections recently, what you’re experiencing is very likely part of your body’s natural recovery process. But if your periods remain very irregular, very heavy, or completely absent for a long time, please let a healthcare provider review you properly.

This can be sorted out and in most cases, your cycle will settle again with time and the right support 😊

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Spotting After Having A Baby!

Q: Good morning doc. Please I gave birth 3 months ago. Few days before six weeks doc’s appointment, I had spotting that lasted for days. I complained to my doctor and he said it’s menstruation. Now last week the spotting started again. What could be the cause? Thanks.

A: ‘Bleeding’ after having a baby is normal. The reason is because as the placenta separates from the uterus when the baby is born, the blood vessels where the placenta was attached start to bleed…understandably, because they are open They bleed into the uterus (womb). As the womb starts to contract, it seals up the blood vessels such that bleeding stops significantly.

So, the ‘bleeding’ after having a baby is a mixture of blood, bacteria and tissue that has sloughed off/peeled off the uterus. This discharge is called lochia. In the first few days, there’s more blood in lochia giving it a bright red colour which eventually becomes more watery and pinkish and eventually becomes yellowish/whitish. This whole process may last 2 to 4 weeks or may come and go, as in the case described above. So, it’s not really a problem 😊

Be sure to check the level of bleeding though and if you feel uncomfortable, please see your doctor. General rules of thumb that suggest there may be a problem are:

• If you’re bleeding heavily…perhaps you’re using a sanitary towel every hour for at least 2 hours or are passing out big clots.

• If your lochia has a bad smell and you start having fever and chills

• If your lochia is still bright red after 4 days of delivery.

Where in doubt, please err on the side of caution and see your doctor.

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#HLWDK Banging Headache in My Ears and Back of My Head!

Q: Hi Doc, I have a headache that is banging inside my ear, at the back of my head and it’s been days. Please help.

A: My first question is whether you are getting enough sleep? This is enough to give you a tension headache! This is the more common type of headache seen as the everyday sort of headache.

It affects both sides of the head as a constant ache. Its causes are not very clear but they can be triggered by stress, hunger, dehydration, etc. They can last from a few minutes to several hours but are not severe enough to stop regular activities. Resting and sleeping well, eating properly and staying hydrated can help prevent this.

Other common causes of primary headaches include:

Migraines: These are felt as severe throbbing pain at the front or side of the head. Some people may experience other symptoms like nausea, vomiting and being sensitive to light. The pain could last a few hours or can stretch on for days. Thus, it is more severe than the tension headaches and can stop an individual from carrying out their daily tasks. Some find that they need strong medication prescribed by doctors to get relief but others are relieved by using over the counter medications.

Cluster headaches: These cause severe pain around one eye and are associated with red or watery eyes and a blocked nose or runny one. They tend to occur for one or two months at a time at about the same time of the year. Most times medications do not work for these headaches. Your doctor will prescribe specific treatment courses.

Chronic daily headaches may be due to medication overuse. This would occur in people who use pain medications too often and then end up with rebound headaches…the exact condition they were trying to avoid. Moral of the story: Never abuse your medications 😊 Use only as directed by your doctor.

Sex headaches: Yes, this can occur. It’s also known as post-coital headache, orgasmic headache etc. It could occur during sexual intercourse, during orgasm or after sexual intercourse. And it can also occur at any time of the day and during any type of sexual activity. It is felt at the back of the skull just above the neck and is usually described as throbbing. Or it could build up gradually during sexual intercourse and intensifies as the sexual excitement before an orgasm increases. They can last anything from a few minutes to a few hours; may never recur or may happen a couple more times before gradually fading away.

It is thought to be due to the release of adrenaline and rapid rise in blood pressure which occurs as one approaches orgasm. And so in these cases, the headaches may not be a cause for concern. However, it is also a possibility that these headaches are a sign of a more serious condition like bleeding onto the surface of the brain. People who usually have migraines, who use recreational drugs like marijuana, use birth control pills etc are more likely to have sex headaches.

Solution? If you have just experienced this, try lying quietly for about an hour or two after taking an analgesic (like paracetamol) to handle the pain. However, it is very important to see your doctor as soon as possible to let him/her know what happened. This is important because, while there may very well not be any underlying issue, you want to be sure to rule out any serious medical condition causing these headaches. Your doctor will also prescribe some drugs on a regular or intermittent basis to deal with your symptoms.

Primary headaches may be triggered by stress, skipped meals and dehydration as noted above. However, they may also be associated with alcohol, foods that contain nitrates like spinach and bad posture.

Secondary headaches may be due to dental problems, hangovers, ear infections, blood clot in the brain, wearing tight gear on the head like hats or even wigs (yes, I see you ladies 😃) or even eating cold foods such as ice creams etc.

So, what should you do? If you find that tight head gear or eating ice cream is the problem, see if stopping helps.

If you find that these headaches are now more frequent than usual, more severe than usual, stops you from going about your daily activities, is no longer responding to the over-the-counter medications you used to take etc, please see your doctor. If you have been seeing the same doctor, with no relief, please seek a second opinion or request a review by a neurologist.

All the best!

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Mixed Berry Banana Cream

Hello Family!

Can you believe it! It’s the 10th day of January already! The year is off and running!

How are we doing on all those resolutions we made a few days ago? 🙂 To encourage you, I am sharing one of the soft serve ice cream alternatives I made over the holidays with the left overs of virtually every fruit I had at home – Frozen Berry Banana Cream.

For recipes of the Frozen Banana Cream and the Frozen Mango Banana Cream, click on the links below: https://chatwithdrketch.com/…/healthy-alternatives-to…/ and https://chatwithdrketch.com/2025/12/28/frozen-banana-cream/

Have a great weekend!

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More facts and fiction – Nutrition Edition

“Brown (Ofada) rice makes you lose weight.”
Verdict: Not exactly.

Brown rice does not automatically cause weight loss.
What it does do is this:

  • It has more fiber than white rice
  • It keeps you full for longer
  • It may help you eat less overall

But, brown rice and white rice have almost the same calories.

If you eat a big plate of brown rice every day, you can still gain weight.
If you eat a moderate portion and pair it well (vegetables + protein), it can support your goals.

So what really matters?
Not just what you eat but how much, how often, and what you eat it with. Oh, and also how you eat it! If you don’t know what I mean, read this – https://chatwithdrketch.com/2025/12/18/fact-or-fiction-nutrition-edition/

Brown rice is a better choice, not a magic solution.

4. “Swallow makes you fat.”
Verdict: Swallow doesn’t automatically make you fat.

What makes the difference is:

  • The size of the portion
  • The kind of soup
  • The amount of oil
  • How often it’s eaten

A mountain of eba with oily egusi every night will show up differently from a modest portion with vegetable soup and protein.

Bottom line:
No food needs to be demonised. Just understood, enjoyed wisely, and eaten in moderation.

Which of these myths did you grow up hearing the most? 😊

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Bleeding at 29 Weeks of Pregnancy!

Q: Hello Doctor. I’m a woman 29yrs of age and pregnant for the second time. I am 29 months gone, went for a doctor’s check up; they ruled out I’m having infection. But since then I’ve been bleeding/ spotting whenever I urinate. Please help.
A: Thanks for writing in.
I assume you mean 29 weeks not months, right? 😊
Bleeding in late pregnancy may be due to a variety of issues ranging from infections to the ‘show’ that heralds the start of labour.
Causes of bleeding at this time include:
1. Cervical changes which can lead to bleeding after sexual intercourse
2. Infection of the cervix
3. Infection of the vagina
Other causes include:
 Placenta previa.
 Placental abruption.
These are two conditions that affect the placenta.
The placenta is created during pregnancy and is attached to the wall of the uterus (the womb) by blood vessels. It is through the placenta that the baby receives vital nutrients and oxygen and also through this that it excretes waste products. The baby is connected to the placenta through the umbilical cord. So this is a pretty important organ in the general scheme of things. The baby’s and mother’s blood do not mix in the placenta usually, though. The baby’s blood flows on one side and the mother’s on the other side.
The placenta usually implants at the top part of the uterus or the side, but in placenta previa the placenta attaches low in the uterine wall and covers the mouth of the womb (the cervix) partially or completely. It could be just low lying, near the cervix but not covering it, just covering part of the cervix or fully covering it. Due to this abnormal placenta position, pregnant women with PP would show up in hospital with bright red vaginal bleeding which may happen with or without contractions.
What causes this? Well, in instances where the placenta is bigger than normal or in cases where surgery had been performed on the uterus. Thus, women with multiple pregnancies (twins, triplets etc), who have had fibroid surgery or previous Caesarian Section, who have had children before may be at risk of this. Other risk factors include age at pregnancy older than 35 years, smoking, use of cocaine etc.
The doctor (obstetrician) will order a scan to confirm the diagnosis. Low lying placenta that hardly get to the opening of the cervix can actually be ‘drawn’ up as the uterus expands to accommodate the growing baby in it. However, the women with complete PP are most likely to go through Caesarian Section.
Can you prevent it? No, you really can’t. What to do? Once you notice any vaginal bleeding, please be sure to see your doctor. PP is likely to cause bleeding from sometime around the second trimester of pregnancy, but of course, every episode of bleeding in pregnancy, irrespective of trimester, should be checked out in the hospital. Depending on the severity of the bleeding and the age of the pregnancy, the doctor would decide whether bed rest or emergency Caesarian section would be applicable. If bed rest is recommended, sexual intercourse and physical exertion including exercise, at this time may not be wise. Please discuss this with your doctor.
You’ve got to make sure that the person with PP is under the care of a good obstetrician. This is not the time to play hooky and try out different treatment options from unorthodox practitioners (not that any time is a good time, anyway :D). It may very well be that if the bleeding continues significantly, the baby may be delivered pre-term. So you have to be in a center that is equipped to handle that eventuality. Better safe than sorry 😊
In placental abruption, the placenta separates, completely or partially, from the wall of the uterus before the baby is born. This situation is not very common but when it does happen, it can deprive the baby of vital nutrients and oxygen and lead to bleeding in the mother. This situation may happen suddenly or may develop gradually with symptoms like vaginal bleeding, abdominal and/or back pain, sore uterus, fewer baby movements, contractions etc
We don’t really know the cause of placental abruption apart from the fact that it could be caused by trauma to the abdomen. Other risk factors include:
• A previous history of placental abruption
• Multiple pregnancy
• Premature rupture of membranes
• Substance abuse eg smoking
• Maternal age greater than 40 years
Now, remember that having a risk factor doesn’t automatically mean that you will come down with the ‘disease’.
Treatment depends on the severity of the abruption, the age of the pregnancy and the effect on the baby. Your doctor will make the call as to whether to go for an emergency Caesarian Section or keep patient on bed rest while waiting for baby to mature some more, depending on these factors.
Can this be prevented? Well, given the fact that we’re not quite sure of the cause, we can’t really do much other than try to guide against risk factors that can be prevented like not smoking.
Just be sure to let your doctor know that you have had this problem before so he can be extra watchful. With the right care, you should be fine.
So, I suggest you go see your obstetrician to examine you and confirm what this bleeding is due to.
Have a great night, y’all 😊

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