Q: Hello Dr. Good day. Dr I need your help. I have this problem. Any time I have sex, I quickly discharge. And after that I wouldn’t be able to continue. Even if I force myself to go again I will feel like something was taken out of me after the second round.
Secondly, I normally have this headache and fever and after treating them, like one month after, the symptoms will be back. My hands will be shaking. My friends said that I should quit beer which I did but it still shakes. What is my problem Dr?

A: Premature ejaculation is the most common type of sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40years. Premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration, with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. In most cases the cause may not be identified. It may be due to anxiety, guilt, depression, or if it has been a long time since last ejaculation. It may occur with a new partner, or only in certain sexual situations. In some cases, medical conditions, hormonal problems, injury or certain medications can cause it.

In most cases, it resolves on its own over time without medical treatment. Cutting down on alcohol, tobacco and illegal drugs may improve this. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation. Antidepressant drugs have also been found to delay ejaculation. There are also creams, gels and sprays which can be applied before intercourse. I would advise you visit a doctor who would be able to evaluate you and give you further advice.

The recurrent fever and headache could be poorly treated malaria, and infection, a problem with the immune system, or some more sinister problems. Have these checked with a doctor and do continue to cut down on your alcohol intake. It sure will help in the long run. Cheers!

****This post was contributed by a guest doctor blogger.

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