Q: I’m a male, aged 29 years. Why do I experience orgasm
when I am fast asleep but I do not release sperms? It happens monthly. Looking
forward to your reply.
A: Thanks for writing
in. Not releasing sperm could be due to a condition known as anejaculation. There
is failure of ejaculation in this situation. It can be primary (in which case
it is present at birth and is a lifelong condition) or it could be secondary,
as appears to be the situation here. In secondary anejaculation, the problem is
acquired. The same conditions that cause retrograde ejaculation are also
suspect here. Retrograde ejaculation (RE), refers to backward ejaculation. To
understand this, a refresher course on how ejaculation happens is needed:
Usually, during ejaculation, the muscle at the neck of the
bladder tightens ensuring that semen does not enter the bladder. In people with
this problem, this muscle does not tighten enough to prevent backtrack of the
semen into the bladder. So, in these people, their ejaculate during intercourse
is usually very little (sometimes almost non-existent, even though they
certainly know they have had an orgasm) or their urine after sexual intercourse
cloudy as a result of the sperm going into the bladder and mixing with urine.
Retrograde ejaculation (RE) does not interfere with a person’s
ability to enjoy sexual intercourse, have and maintain an erection or even
climax. Usually, these people would show up in the clinic because of
infertility.
RE and secondary anejaculation can start after a surgery on the
bladder or prostate; it can occur as a side effect of some anti-hypertensive
drugs (drugs used to treat hypertension), or as a complication of some
surgeries or medical conditions like Diabetes Mellitus, multiple sclerosis or
spinal cord injury. A few people are actually born with a weakness of this
muscle that closes the neck of the bladder during ejaculation.
During the refractory phase of the sexual response cycle, it is
also not possible for a man to achieve orgasm. To better understand this, a
quick class There are 4 phases of the sexual response cycle:
excitement, plateau, orgasm (climax) and resolution (when the body returns to
its normal functioning). After resolution, men usually need recovery time.
During this period (refractory period), the man cannot achieve another orgasm.
This period may last for minutes, hours or even days…the older one gets, the
longer the refractory period.
If RE or secondary anejaculation is caused by medications, your
doctor may consider changing them or stopping them for a while. Otherwise,
there are some drugs used to ensure the neck of the bladder is closed during
ejaculation. Your doctor will weigh their side effects against their potential
benefits in deciding whether to prescribe them to you or not. For those who
desire babies, your doctor will also discuss options of ‘harvesting’ sperm to
be used on your spouse.
For spinal cord injuries, the ejaculatory pathway may be intact
or there may be need for penile vibratory stimulation depending on the level of
the injury.
Your doctor should be able to take a proper history, carry out a
detailed examination and make a proper diagnosis.
All the best!