Q:
Hi Doc, what’s the safest and fastest way to stop breastfeeding without the
baby crying. I’m in need of your help
A: Breastfeeding is
really an intimate activity for mum and baby and it is not strange to find both
of them feeling some sense of loss as this ‘bonding’ activity comes to an
end…even when it’s mummy suggesting the change 😀 So, it is important
that mum finds time to still bond with baby like frequent cuddles, keeping baby
close to you, frequent eye contact etc. Generally re-assure your baby that the
fact that this activity is coming to an end does not mean you love him or her
any less. Be sure not to introduce this when your baby is going through any
major changes like moving house etc That might convince baby you’ve moved on to
other stuff 😀
Then get to it! 😀 How? You can stop gradually over a
period of time. Replace some feeds during the day with other foods or even milk
(just not from you). Usually the first and last feeds of the day are the most
difficult to replace or give up as they are your baby’s sorta emotional
anchors 😀 But keep at it over a period of weeks and the breast milk
production will gradually ‘dry up’.
The other option is to just stop putting baby to the breast. If
your baby feels it’s also a good idea to stop, then you’re good. If not, you may
have to be very creative with means and ways of distracting him/her.
In both situations, you may find your breasts engorged. If
you’re stopping gradually, you may want to express some milk (don’t express
until until the breast feels empty) and store in the fridge. You could put that
in a sippy cup and feed baby later.
If you’re stopping immediately, get the right support for your
breasts.
In the good old days, mothers would tell their daughters to tie
a wrapper tightly across their breasts. This helps. In fact, I believe that
this is still being done by lots of people 😀
If you’re more jet age, though wear a tight supportive bra. For
the pain, take analgesics and also apply cold packs to your breasts.
Try not to stimulate the nipples during this period. This encourages milk
production. Hubby should kindly take note too.
All the best as you move to a new phase of parenting!